RAZOTKRIVENA JEDNA OD NAJVEĆIH PREVARA NA INSTAGRAMU: Da, moja guza zaista izgleda OVAKO! (FOTO)

Dodaje da je u jednom trenutku života bila opsednuta time da mora biti mršava. Preskakala je, kaže, obroke, iako je imala normalnu težinu.

Objavljeno: 08.07.2020. 11:43h

Milan Rankovic

Ono što vidimo na društvenim mrežama daleko je od stvarne slike. Međutim, neretko to zaboravljamo. Zato sam ja tu, govori influenserka i novinarka Dane Merser. Na Instagramu je prati više od milijun ljudi, a ona svakodnevno objavljuje svoje fotografije, jednu obrađenu, a drugu nefotošopiranu verziju svog tela. I ona je jedna od retkih koja se ne srami svog celulita kao ni 'šlaufića' na trbuhu.

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- Želim pokazati kako je lako manipulisati fotografijama i na društvenim mrežama stvarati neiskrenu sliku o sebi. Dobro osvetljenje, pravi ugao i poza igraju važnu ulogu. Naravno, tu je i fotošop - govori Dane. Dodaje da je u jednom trenutku života bila opsednuta time da mora biti mršava. Preskakala je, kaže, obroke, iako je imala normalnu težinu.

- Znam da nisam savršena, ali tome ni ne treba težiti. Konačno se osećam dobro u svojoj koži. I mladi ljudi trebaju znati da nema ničeg lošeg u sitnim nepravilnostima. One nas čine posebnim - govori.

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Insta vs Reality / OR changing your BODY does not change your BODY IMAGE. There was a time in my life when I was obsessed with being thin. I skipped meals. Memories. Moments. I was convinced if I lost those next 10lbs, if I hit this magical number in my mind, I would feel good. Strong. WORTHY. I was convinced I would be LOVED. And that maybe, just maybe, I would love myself too. But here’s the thing: Shrinking changed NOTHING. Except some number on a scale. Now I am heavier. Older. And I have never felt more confident in my body or in myself. It’s still a work in progress (always, maybe always), but I see my CELLULITE and don’t feel shame. I see my limbs with all their bits in ALL THE LIGHTING and love what they can do for me. And I see my heart, clumsy as it is, stumbling as it is, and I let it be. I let it exist without judgement. So today, I want to remind you something it too me far too long to learn: Changing our APPEARANCE won’t FIX what’s going on INSIDE. We can train and sweat and eat all the greens, but if we don’t solve what’s happening in our hearts or in our heads, those thoughts will remain. Those battles will remain. Whether they are related to how we see our BODIES Or how we view OURSELVES. The work starts inside. In our heads. In our hearts. In the quiet, raw, tender bits of our soul, that sit so fragile and so shy just crying out for love. In all these parts, that’s where the true change happens. And that’s something we can never really share in an insta/reality photo. But we can certainly like all the same. You got this girl. x Photo @chiclebelle who is just a wondrous woman. #selflove #bodyconfident #selflove #iweigh #feminist #mentalhealth #edrecovery

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Do you SIT differently in PUBLIC than you do in PRIVATE? I did. For YEARS I did. In public, I would pose. Squeeze. Arch. Tighten. In private, I’d sit comfortably: shoulders relaxed, body loose, just being human. And I imagine that maybe, just maybe, I’m not alone. I read an article once talking about the BEST WAY to POSITION your body on the beach. It was all ‘knees up, core tight, never lay flat’. And if you had extra wiggles and jiggles around the hips and thighs? The article recommended DIGGING A HOLE in the SAND. To put that bum into. So it would, you know, look LESS. As a teen, I did these things. And then, as an adult, I still held myself sucked in or avoided crossing my legs because heaven forbid anyone should see my CELLULITE. Things have CHANGED in this last year. I wish they would have changed so much sooner. So today, I just want to remind you: It is OK to sit comfortably. To RELAX while you’re RELAXING. Perfection isn’t the price you pay to exist in a human body. And comfort is pretty darn incredible. Posing is great fun, but NOT POSING doesn’t make you worth ANY LESS. Even if it means your wobbly bits come out on show. Or your skin folds. Or you’re just, well, YOU. Because being YOU is incredible. And worthy. And powerful. In whatever way, shape, or form. You got this girl. Go sit comfortably. x Photos @chiclebelle who is just the best #selflove #selfacceptance #bodyacceptance #iweigh #feminist

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